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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Can I receive financial assistance?
YES! You may qualify to receive financial support. Your adoptive family may pay for your living expenses (ie., rent, food, maternity clothes, etc.) according to state law.
What are the birth father's rights?
If the father of your baby knows that you are pregnant and is supportive of the adoption, he can be as involved in the process as you would like. If he is not partnering with you through the adoption process, then we can work with you in terminating his rights. But don't worry! This is not usually a problem.
Can I get counseling?
Yes, you can see a counselor of your choice, we can refer a counselor to you, or you can speak with one of our counselors, 24-hours a day, seven days a week.
Does this cost me anything?
No! There is no cost to you for the adoption.
I need to move out! Can you help me?
We may be able to help you if you would like to move. You need to find the location (ie., city, apartment, etc.) and we will assist with the rest.
Can I choose the baby's adoptive parents?
If you want to, you may choose the baby's adoptive parents. You tell us what is important to you in a family (i.e., race, religion, age, other children, etc.) and we will present profiles of families that match what you are looking for.
What happens before the baby is born?
Once you choose a family and you are sure about them, it is considered a "match." You will meet with the baby's adoptive family and spend time getting to know them before the baby is born. Adoption Advantage will be available to you 24-7 to offer support and guidance. You will continue seeing your doctor and taking care of yourself.
What happens when I go into labor?
If you go into labor and have not selected a family yet, it is okay. You will need to call our office. We will have a family ready as soon as possible. The baby will not be without adoptive parents. Our staff and you will have already made arrangements with the hospital. We will be with you at the hospital all through your labor and delivery.
What happens after the baby is born?
After the baby is born you will most likely remain in the hospital for 12-24 hours before you are released. The adoptive family is usually at the hospital with your baby and if you would like to see your baby and spend time with him or her, that is o.k. You need to let everyone know what you are most comfortable with. The hospital social worker will meet with you to sign a birth certificate and hospital release form. We will make sure you have transportation home and your baby will go home from the hospital with the adoptive family. Depending on the State laws, arrangements with your adoptive family regarding contact after the baby is born (ie., pictures, letters, etc.) will have already been made.
Will anyone find out about the adoption?
Everything is confidential through Adoption Advantage. If you do not want your family or friends to know, that is your choice. You may tell whoever you want, it is not up to us to do so. We will help you through telling those close to you if you would like.
Where are you located?
Adoption Advantage is located in Arkansas, Tennessee and Texas. We have helped clients all over the country.
Do I need to meet with someone from your office?
Our support staff will meet with you and help you work through everything related to your pregnancy and adoption plan. We can travel to wherever you are, or meet in our offices. Whatever makes you the most comfortable.
Do I need a lawyer?
You most likely will not need a lawyer. Adoption Advantage can provide you with a list of available lawyers if necessary, at no cost to you.
During what hours is your office available?
We are always available. You can reach us at all times of the day or night, either through our toll-free number, 1.877.349.9334, or through our pager.
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